Is Regret good energy or bad energy?

The terms REGRET means the following:

"The pain of mind on account of something done or experienced back in the past, with a wish that it had been done differently."

"A looking back with dissatisfaction or with longing; grief; sorrow; especially, a mourning on account of the loss of some joy, advantage, or satisfaction."

Is is also possible to have regret for something that you chose NOT to experience?

Regret is feeling like an angel with only one wing...

In my life and my world I have definitely had moments where I wanted something, but my wanting was contingent upon someone else's cooperation or their desire to want the same thing. And thus some of my wants didn't come true as a result. At the time I may have had regrets because I would never know "what could have been."

Now in hindsight, of course, I see that even those holes of experiences I did want to experience, were indeed blessings in disguise.

So what does Regret have to do with finding your Twin Soul?

Is it possible to have met your Twin Soul, your one and only flame of true love, and to have let her or him go?

I find myself at an age where juvenile infatuation is not necessarily part of my life anymore. Although I love the feeling of being in love. Mostly because I quickly see through such shallow feelings and instantly transmute them into unconditional love. However, what is true and unconditional love? The kind of love you want to share with your Twin Soul?

How many times have you talked to a person in their 40s, 50s, 60s or even older, and they told you of that one special person that they knew was their Soulmate, their Twin Soul, and yet at that time they didn't recognize the power, they were lost in that feeling of childish infatuation and thus didn't recognize the true power of their connection?

How many people roam this Earth with aching hearts because they let the one person go that would have changed the entire course of their life?

I wonder how many people are out there having true regrets that they didn't follow their hearts at one point or another...

The question is, what are you to do if you have indeed let a person go?

Is there a way to get them back? Should you settle for second best? Should you wait for another life time to reunite with your Twin Soul?

We are told that if we seek with all of our hearts and all of our minds, we will find and shall have what we're looking for. It takes my entire system of desire, every atom, every molecule and neuron to work together to merging with this person. Is it hard work? Absolutely not. All it takes is patience, ease and a 100% match.

I'm calling for my 100% match - show me and communicate with me about what my next steps are in order to complete myself so I can stand before you ready for our merging.

Appreciation of the Day

My dear Beloved, as I am watching nature and the still instinctual animals of our planet, I realize that the concept of give-and-take is completely absent. It simply doesn't exist. What does exist, however, is a give-and-regive energy that keeps the circle of abundance going on and on. Rain falling from the sky never gets rejected by the soil, but instead is received and absorbed with gratitude. Out of the overflowing of this receiving, the soil has no choice but to give the gift back to the skies in form of dew, clouds, and fog. And the skies gratefully accept this beautiful and magnificant gift, only so it too can overflow with the gift itself by converting it into rain once again so it can be given back to the soil. And so the circle goes on and on. It's a circle of giving. And expectations are nowhere to be found within this sacred concept of nature.

Love is the only form of energy that cannot be received. It can only be given. And only in the GIVING is our love blessed with the immediate feeling of having received an amazing gift.

To give is truly a blissful state to be in. How I wish to approach my union with you in this way.

Yet how often do I remember someone wanting to do something nice for me and how I would simply squash the gift by saying: "Oh, you shouldn't have!"

The soil never closes its arms to the skies by saying: "Oh, you shouldn't give me this precious gift of rain today!"

And yet we do this to people all the time. And oh, how I apologize to all whose gifts I have ever "clipped off."

What I appreciate about you, my Beloved, is all that you willingly do for me and us as a union. Thank you for going the extra mile to come see me, for driving long hours while being tired, because being with me is the most important thing to you. Thank you for giving so unconditionally of yourself and for allowing me to receive your amazing gifts, and holding my space if ever I falter and reject them, when in fact I'm simply overwhelmed with your giving. Thank you for your patience, for your guidance and for your unconditional love and leadership to being the one to bringing the sun's light to this relationship.

And I await you with reverance...

Watch a Special Movie I made for my Love

Ah, I figured out how to imbed our movie into this post, rather than sending you away. So here it goes again...

Very rarely do two people find each other, yet when they do, entire galaxies are shaken up...This is a true love story. Just when life is over and flashes by you one more time, you'll realize that all that mattered was love and kindness. So when watching this video of this true story, imagine your own journey of love to be just as significant and inspirational (never settle for less than what you truly deserve). And the Universe shall deliver you just that: True and Unconditional Love.

Plato on Twin Souls

Although I am writing this blog as form of a diary and expression to my Beloved, I'm certain that as I am calling out to finding my One and Only, others will be drawn to this site in search of the same. Never before in history have we as a combined human soul been searching to "go home" or "be at home" with that special someone. Not just anyone, the One and Only one who seems to "complete" us and transform us into something brand new, like hydrogen and oxygen together create our life-giving, life-sustaining water.

The twin-soul concept is not new.

Plato described it 2,500 years ago: " ... and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight even for a moment... If Hephaestus, son of Zeus, were to ask the pair; 'do you desire to be wholly one, always day and night to be in one another's company? For if this is what you desire, I am ready to melt you into one and let you grow together, so that being two you shall become one, and after your death in the world beyond you will still be one departed soul instead of two — I ask whether this is what you lovingly desire?' — and there is not a man or woman of them who, when they heard the proposal, would not acknowledge that this melting into one another, this becoming one instead of two, was the very expression of their ancient need. And the reason is that human nature was original one and we were a whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is called love."

Plato is not the only individual who has given us insights into twin soul relationships. There are many others, such as the Sufis, Edgar Cayce, the list goes on.

The question I have to ask myself is this: "Would I rather remain a single drop of water, independent and proud to be dripping off a leaf while giving life to a little plant or would my talents be used better if I merged into the brooke, the stream, the river, the lake, and eventually unite with the big sea?"

Am I scared to lose myself if I melt with my other half and together we merge into the big sea (our light source) and have all that support? Or would I rather remain a single, little drop, alone yet independent? Where is the balance to be whole within myself, yet understanding the calling that there is so much more power when together we melt into one?

I am not scared at all. In fact I am longing and striving and intending to get to the big sea rather sooner than later. I realize that merging with my other half will multiply my lonely power by getting the "boulder rolling" much faster and with a lot more power.

I am ready for you, Beloved.

Watch Our Special Movie

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EM9wcnO-uCo

Very rarely do two people find each other, yet when they do, entire galaxies are shaken up...This is a true love story. Just when life is over and flashes by you one more time, you'll realize that all that mattered was love and kindness. So when watching this video of this true story, imagine your own journey of love to be just as significant and inspirational (never settle for less than what you truly deserve). And the Universe shall deliver you just that: True and Unconditional Love.